Can you make the ‘can’t we have all the food?!’ rebloggable, please?
I have a couple of sexy Anons awaiting answers, so this is just a quick post to make sure you know that I haven’t forgotten you, I am cradling your messages close to my chest and crooning at them, but they deserve well thought out responses so I making sure you get nothing but the best.
Nothing but the best for my handsome greyfaces, I tells ya.
On a side note, soon this blog will have reached 1,000 followers!
CAN YOU IMAGINE? 1,000 people who somehow manage to be attention seeking and non-existent at the same time!! (Not counting all our cool Bi-Bros simply supporting the cause. Props, guys, props.) In honour of this momentous occasion I am half wondering if we should do something special, but I’ll be damned if I can think of anything.
If you have any suggestions on how to mark this truly special event, then please get on to me and we’ll hash this baby out!
Peace Out, Yo
Polish journalist to be deported by the USA due to his bisexuality
Ivo Widlak is a Polish-born bisexual man who’s been in the US since 2001 and has been married to his bisexual wife Lale for 10 years. After getting angry about an article he had written about some corruption, someone in the Polish community of Chicago informed the office of Immigration that he was a homosexual and not really married to his wife. He and his wife very angrily deny this.
They are happy to explain over and over (and over and over and over) that it is true they are both openly bisexual. And that as bisexual people they fell in love and are have chosen to be happily and monogamously married. But still the Immigration people persist in saying they are gay and the marriage is a fake.
This truly seems to be a case of the law not understanding or respecting the reality of the bisexual orientation. If Ivo was in a same sex relationship, he would not be deported for the Obama administration has stated that foreigners who are same-sex partners of American citizens can be included under an Obama administration policy suspending deportations of some immigrants who pose no security risk. If Ivo was straight he would also be safe, but because he and his wife are both bisexual their marriage, love and ability to live in the US is threatened.
Yet again — So much 4 all that “Heterosexual Privilege” that all bisexual have … hmmmm?
Things To Do:
- HELP US GET THE WORD OUT - they have been trying to do this in Silence & Secret. So reblog, share, tweet and signal boost
- Go to your GSA, your SAGA’s, your LGBT Centers, all the LGBTQ Groups you give your money and time too. Make sure they know about this. Show them the actual definitions of Bisexuality. Make sure they stop making snide jokes about how Bisexuals all have “Privilege” … about how we are all just “in the closet” … how we are binary and transphobic and all the other sly digs and daily erasure we suffer. Make them listen to us and see us and include us.
- If you are in the USA please join the BiNet USA Group on Facebook where announcements are being made as they come in
- If you are in Chicagoland please join on Facebook: Bisexual Queer Alliance Chicago + Chicago Bisexual Queer Meetup on Meetup: Chicago Bisexual / Queer Community
- And watch this and the other Bisexual Blogs … we will Post more information as we get it.
Thank You All
I generally try to keep things on the light side here, but this is absolutely outrageous and everyone should be made aware.
FYI this is Australia’s Parliament house… we’re into all kinds of things down under.
QUICK WE NEED A NATIONAL ANTHEM
Someone sent me a lovely ask about how I was so quick to accept other’s definitions and changes.
I wrote a long post about how, if I am not the person being oppressed, then it is not that difficult to change just one thing in what I have written, or one phrase in my general speech.
If you are not being oppressed or discriminated against, you do NOT get to dictate what is offensive. That includes me. If I am told what is offensive, I will change my shit. That’s what decent people do.
I WILL make mistakes. But please bear with me, and let me know what those mistakes are. I LOVE knowing what my mistakes are! Knowing them means that I can correct them immediately!
AND OF COURSE I ACCIDENTALLY DELETED THE ASK IN QUESTION, AND MY ENTIRE POST IN RESPONSE
BECAUSE I DON’T INTERNET APPARENTLY

But no, you all are so lovely, and please, imagine me whispering how great you are into your ear right before you go to sleep in an entirely inappropriate manner.
ALL IN ALL thank you for putting up with me thus far, and if I have fucked up with regards body or sexuality bits, just let me know immediately and I will adjust that shit!
malicekisses asked goshdarnbisexuals:
Can you make the ‘can’t we have all the food?!’ rebloggable, please?
BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD!!! Once you are given this award, you are supposed to paste it in the ask of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing will happen, but it’s sweet to know someone thinks you’re beautiful inside and out you deserve it! (You’re doing a good thing, each and every one of you who posts to this blog. Stay happy, stay sexy! xoxoxo)

So, in response to all the heterosexism in the fb comments for the Pride Oreo, I went and bought a pack of double stuf oreos. And while I was at it I also bought chips, pie, and watermelon. ‘Cuz I’ma greedy bisexual. ;D

I would like to submit that to official Bi Food be those orange/cream swirled pops, because they’re two flavors, and incredibly delicious and complimentary.

Isn’t it amazing how many of us can be simultaneously attention seeking and non-existent at the same time?
Is anyone else impressed with us?
I know I am!
We really don’t though.

Really? Are you sure? Because I’m only 5’4”, and this hoe has to be at least 6 feet long.
I guess it must be bisexual too.